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4.

Personal
Life Coaching

 

At risk of sounding obnoxious, allow me to share a personal observation which will help to serve you in determining if we are a match for success.
 
In my experience, some "Life Coaches"  were damaged, assaulted in some way by life, or have lived through tragedy and strife.  In an attempt to "cure" these personal assaults, they look to right their emotional damage by making others' lives better.  I applaud their efforts and I am glad to see someone take a negative and turn it into a positive!
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I have read the "life coaching" bios of many. Some are great people who - in good faith - do care about helping people. I get that and appreciate it.  Some coaches use melodramatic hyperbole and  claim,  "My inspiration will help you."  Such overtures are not solutions-oriented plans.  Rather, emotionally charged promises that lack mission-critical, actions-based strategy.
 
  
                                        I DO NOT coach my in that way. 
                                              That is NOT my process.
 
Full disclosure:  I never hide the fact that my path has been one of challenge, difficulty, strife, disappointment, and sometimes, depression. I nearly died from COVID, was diagnosed with CANCER, and never stopped moving forward.   I fight.  You will learn to fight as well.
 
Most importantly, I have a great life. I do not need to resolve past emotional hardships by helping others.  I need to help people to make myself "feel better," as some life coaches may do. I do not speak in the tone of  "rainbows and sunshine."   Unlike other "life coaches," I do not preach sermons to make you feel better.  I help you ask yourself questions and together, we find answers.
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I have overcome difficulty through aggressive ambition, relentless efforts, and a focused, unwavering purpose-driven resolve.  I am your greatest ally because WE push through hardship and will NOT allow an obstacle to slow us down. Failures happen.  It is what we learn from those failures that will define us!   My multi-million dollar network of experts, business owners, lawyers, doctors, and other qualified professionals are at your service.
 
I do one simple thing:  I work to help people disconnect from emotional barriers and focus upon rational, reasonable, and logical solutions to promote situational resolve. Then, we roll out the plan of action and pursue success with reckless abandon!
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See Long Island Press' view of Phil Sottile HERE!

3012 Jericho Tpke

East Northport NY 11731

phil@intelligentfitness.net

 

Tel: 631.858.2900

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